JoHannah Reardon, associate editor with ChristianBibleStudies.com commented that in Steve Farrar book Finishing Strong, tells of a study conducted by Dr. Howard Hendricks of 246 men in full-time ministry: Professor Hendricks was able to find nearly 250 men who without a doubt were committed to Jesus Christ. Yet the thing they had in common was that within 24 months of each other they got involved in sexual immorality…. After interviewing each man, Dr. Hendricks discovered four correlations between all 246 men:
- None were involved in any kind of personal group.
- Each had ceased to invest in a daily personal time of prayer, Scripture reading, and worship.
- Over 80 percent of them became sexually involved with another woman as the result of counseling the woman.
- Without exception, each of the 246 had been convinced that moral failure “will never happen to me.”
Another sad statistic is 175 SBC Pastors leave the pulpit or are fired a month. Below are some other statistics compiled by Rich Murphy in Bad News About Your Pastor. The full article can be found at http://www.maranathalife.com/lifeline/bad-news.htm.
"Take a look at these alarming statistics:
- Fifteen hundred pastors leave the ministry each month due to moral failure, spiritual burnout or contention in their churches.
- Four thousand new churches begin each year, but over seven thousand churches close.
- Fifty percent of pastors' marriages will end in divorce.
- Eighty percent of pastors and eighty-four percent of their spouses feel unqualified and discouraged in their role as pastors.
- Fifty percent of pastors are so discouraged that they would leave the ministry if they could, but have no other way of making a living.
- Eighty-five percent of pastors said their greatest problem is they are sick and tired of dealing with problem people, such as disgruntled elders, deacons, worship leaders, worship teams, board members, and associate pastors.
- Ninety percent said the hardest thing about ministry is dealing with uncooperative people.
- Seventy percent of pastors feel grossly underpaid.
- Eighty percent of pastors' spouses feel their spouse is overworked.
- Eighty percent of pastor' wives feel left out and unappreciated by the church members.
- Eighty percent of pastors' spouses wish their spouse would choose another profession.
- Eighty percent of pastors' wives feel pressured to do things and be something in the church that they are really not.
- The majority of pastor's wives surveyed said that the most destructive event that
has occurred in their marriage and family was the day they entered the ministry.
Do you think being a pastor is a cakewalk? Do you pray for your pastor daily? Do you seek him out so to see what you can do to help out or do you seek him out so to see what he can do for you? Do you send him and his family encouraging notes? Do you give him and his family hugs and tell them you love them?
I challenge you to let your pastor have at least one day of rest. I ask of you to understand that he can't visit everyone all the time. Understand his time is valuable just like you believe your time is also. Before we complain maybe we need to see where we can help lighten the Pastor's load so he can be taking care of the truly needy. Remember we are all to minister. So when was the last time you checked on a shut-in or made a hospital visit? We as laypeople can take care of some of the light work and this will definitely lighten the pastors load. Till next time. KEEPING TABS for you.